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Please pray the Lord to put my family back together. MY wife and I were divorced this past November after my numerous affairs. I know how wrong I was then and have asked for forgiveness from both God and my wife. She says he has forgiven me but cannot forget. I understand the pain I have caused not only her but my children. We recently tried to give another chance but she says that I am bad for her because she gets angry and depressed about my past affairs. I love my wife and kids very much and miss them greatly. I am not acting out the same as I had in the past but yet she is fearful to trust me ever again. Only God Almighty can reach down to us and completely restore the trust and love that I have destroyed. Thank You
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Continue your prayer and trust in the Lord. Pray he touches her heart to enable her to forgive. Continue to show her how much you really do care.
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Joined: Mar 2001
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It sounds like she loves you but she needs some time to heal. Show her gently and slowly that it is safe to trust you. Keep working on yourself - it takes time to make deep-rooted change. Remember the story of the seed that falls in different terrain - your wife believes the seed has fallen but she wants to be sure it's not on rocky soil so it can't take root. <BR>We are all here trying to change with the help of the Lord. <P>Jesus, please help this man and his wife to heal their relationship according to Your will. Let the wounds of the past draw them first closer to You and then to each other so that You are the glue which keeps them together. Bless this man for his sincere desire to mend his ways and to love his wife and family fully. Please don't let his sorrow get in the way of his relationship with You. Help this man to feel Your Divine Mercy and Your grace. Amen.
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<BR>True love and trust comes from the Lord. I didn't start trusting God to reconcile my marriage until I began to understand His word on marriage. I learned His word after I went to this site. <A HREF="http://www.restorem.org" TARGET=_blank>www.restorem.org</A> <P>The testimonies will give you so much hope.<P>In Him,<P>
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