What is up Maya? I have watched and read that you do not want to work on your marriage. OK, no problem. I can understand that, many people actually come to that point and they need to. What I do not understand is why you still post on this board. I'm not saying you should stop, I'm just just looking for a little insight as to why you still do.<P>Perhaps you have hope for your marriage still yet and are hoping someone or something will help you see this.<P>Perhaps you are hoping to save some people alot of grief by offering the "flip" side so that they may see why there spouse is not returning.<P>Perhaps you are just bored and like to irritate people as you said in the other post.<P>If there is any reason you post other than the last I stated then more power to you, but if it is the last, why?<P>Just trying to gain some understanding. And as far as laughing me off goes, feel free, alot of people do. Misery does love company. But I try to keep company with God, so if misery is your goal then you will be alone, sorry.<P>------------------<BR>1Co:2:4: And my speech and my preaching was not with enticing words of man's wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power:<BR>1Co:2:5: That your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God.

Oh Paul, you're so funny!!<BR>Thanks!

Oh well.

Or perhaps she just uses this board as a scapegoat for her anger, taking it out on everyone here.<P>Everyone has problems, I mean look at all of the good people here that are dealing with spouses that have left them. So much pain. But they reach out to others to try and help. I personally cannot understand how someone like Maya can say such hurtful remarks and not be edited out.

Isaac and Paul:<P>Maya has been around this board for much longer than either of you two, so you don't have the full perspective on "who" the real Maya is (if you can actually have that in a virtual situation like this). <P>But Maya is currently suffering from what appears to be some pretty severe depression. The tact that you've taken will not help her (or anyone else), so I'd drop it now.

K: I wasn't trying to help, I don't think I can. I'm trying for understanding. I know she suffers from depression (severe).<P>As far as dropping it goes, why do you think I replied 'oh well'<P>------------------<BR>1Co:2:4: And my speech and my preaching was not with enticing words of man's wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power:<BR>1Co:2:5: That your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God.