Please pray for my husband and myself and our marriage.<BR>I have not been a church going person. I always thought just being faithful and believing was most important; that most churches were too political.<P>I feel I have led us away from going to church (we've not gone continuously in about 2 years). Now the devil has come into our marriage and my husband has lost his way. He has committed adultery and doesn't seem to understand the consequences.<P>He has always been such a big believer and faithful person. I feel I have let him down in my not making a stronger commitment to God personally and maritally. <P>Please pray that I have the strength to know God and that my marriage will once again be blessed by Him. Three co-workers have felt led to tell me the Word and to pray with me and for me. <P>I feel such a strong calling.<P>Gods Blessings,<BR>Cali

[QUOTE]Originally posted by InShockinCali:<P>Please father God allow your spirit to touch her heart that she may forgive herself as you have already forgiven her. That your spirit may touch her husbands heart that he may come to realize the error of his ways and restore his marriage. Lord let this couple trust and abidie in your protective light<P><BR><P>------------------<BR>If you are living in the problem then you are not part of the solution!<P>I CAN'T<BR>HE CAN<BR>I THINK I WILL LET HIM

Cali<P>I was very much like you...then the bomb dropped! I got on my knees and asked God's forgiveness..I needed to grow in my spiritual walk and God knew this. He was taking me to a different level. I kept asking that my will be broken..and His will be done. Cali, God brought me to the bouls of the earth..and in a year has been rebuilding me. My relationship with Him is wonderful..Prayer is so powerful. He did not answer when I wanted him to....He taught me patience and answered in His own time. Cali, He wanted me back and told me so..keep your eyes on Him and not the situation. The Bible has many wonderful answers..and this could be what God wants you to do. Ask him for strength, grace, and joy...it is yours when you ask him in his name. My situation is not perfect yet, but God<BR>has worked miracles which I could not see before. My H is coming out of the fog..slowly...and this is a blessing from God.....BELIEVE AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE..<BR>Kathie

[QUOTE]Originally posted by RidenSober:<BR>That your spirit may touch her husbands heart that he may come to realize the error of his ways and restore his marriage. Lord let this couple trust and abidie in your protective light<P>My H came home angry last night. The OW is putting on pressure. I was so tempted to also put on pressure for the decision that I want. But I resisted and revealed to H what was in my heart about God and our following his calling. I prayed out loud for us to listen to God and what he wants for our marriage. I prayed in my heart that my H would once again know God and see the OW for what she is.<P>In prayer,<BR>Cali<P>

Cali,<P>I have been where you are, with a H that could not make up his mind between me and the OW. She was not putting pressure on in an obvious way, but he knew that the clock was ticking with her. I can offer you encouragement that time will help. In the mean time, think Plan A. Your resorting to also putting pressure on him now may be the thing that drives him even further away. Keep in mind your hopes for the future. You don't want a husband that was forced to say with you, or one that felt trapped in the marriage. You want H to stay because there is no place that he would rather be than with you. <P>I pray for your family, for you and H. He has a very precious gift in a W that obviously loves him. I pray for God's support and direction for your life. That He will give you the words to say and the peace to support His will.<P><P>------------------<BR>Deb