I posted this in General Questions, but thought I would share it here as well.<P>And the struggle continues. The thought of months and months of this....<BR>1st wait until A is over. Then wait for no contact to really occur. (must take into account relapses.)<BR>Make it through depression/withdrawal. Then, with prayer, rebuilding and recovery.<P>Let us ask blessings for our marriages.<P>A prayer for us, (a rewording of the Prayer of Jabez)to say everyday.<P>"Oh, that He would bless our marriages indeed, and enlarge our territory, that His<BR>hand would be with us, and that He would keep us from evil, that we may not cause pain!"<P>(You might want to check out the book by Bruce Wilkinson; it has a tremendous message!)<BR><P>------------------<BR>See each day as a new beginning!<P>Cali