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#339211 07/05/01 12:22 AM
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My wife and I have been married for 15 years, and now we are getting a divorce. I don't want this divorce, but she does. She says that she doesn't care for me the way she should. I found out that during our separation tyhat she was having an affair with another woman. She told me that she has had girlfriends before we were married, but she wanted to do the right thing, but now I hurt her, and she is tired of doing the right thing. We are both Christians, and I ask for prayers and suggestions on dealing with this topic. We have two children. I love my wife,and I still have hope for my marriage. We have been through mediation, so the divorce will be final soon if my wife decides to sign the papers. Please pray for a conversion in her.<BR>

#339212 07/05/01 12:32 AM
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I'm fairly new here, but I will try to say something encouraging. I will certainly pray for God to show her the truth. My WH also thinks that our marriage was a mistake and he is tired of trying to make something work that he has no feelings for. It's not over yet, so it is not too late for your situation. If you haven't studied the materials yet on this web-site, do so. I think you need to start Plan A immediately.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Faith1

#339213 07/05/01 04:09 PM
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Dear Jesus, This situation is incredibly painful, almost unbearable. We know that You are there with us, feeling our pain, crying with us when we suffer and rejoicing when sinners return to You. Please help this wife to desire You again. Help her to find Your way again. Free her from the chains of her attractions which lead to destruction. Heal her body and her soul and bring her back to her husband at the time which only You can choose. I ask this in Your Holy Name, Jesus Christ of Nazareth, Son of the Living God who rose from the dead. I join all the others on this forum to ask through Your Divine Mercy to heal our souls and those of our spouses. Let our suffering increase our faith. Let our renewed faith lead thousands of others back to You. Blessed are You for destroying our enemy and restoring our lives. Amen.


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