My wife finally decided to go to counseling with me . The appointment is today with Steve Harley. Please pray that the Holy Spirit will be with us and that God give Steve the wisdom to guide us in restoring our marriage. May God give my wife the understanding and faith to work our relationship. She still believes that she will not be happy in our marriage, and she claims that she does not want it to work out and does not know why. For full story please see {"Need urgent prayer request" in ---- Prayer Requests}.<BR>I know God hates divorce and his word never comes back to Him void. Please pray that the devil not be there to decieve my wife.<BR>PLEASE PRAY...........Thank You

I will pray for you ....I go with my wife tomorrow.

Seanboy,<BR>I don't know how counseling went but I know I feel worse every time I hear my husband's words about the whole situation. <P>I consider him a little mouse that the enemy cat is messing with right before he kills him. However, he won't kill my husband because of my prayers and the prayers of this forum. He won't kill your wife either.<P>My only advice is "Don't believe her." She is TUA ("talking under the influence.") The enemy is using her to get to you so don't fall for it.<P>The same advice holds for you, Mr. Lee. Your wife can't be attracted to you now because she is attracted to the dark and you are Light. So ignore her words and pray, pray, pray.<P>Do the practical things suggested - I'm not saying to ignore all the advice you receive. But these situations are like illnesses and you have to be above the patient: you are the nurse and the Lord is the doctor. Don't let the patient bring you down. Keep your distance and pray.<P>My heart is with you.<P>Jesus, You are Truth and Light. Send Your Spirit of discernment to us so we recognize the lies our spouses believe. We know that we are not perfect and that we have some fault but that You hate divorce and are allowing this trial to bring us closer to You, to make us more perfect in Your eyes. Please bring these wonderful men the strength of conviction. Their love and their stand and their looking beyond the current circumstance will bring their wives home when You decide the time is ripe. Grant them the patience, the faith and the perserverance they need to travel over this very rough road of the moment. Allow them to feel the grace of Your Holy Spirit when they let go of the situation and let you "drive." Thank you Lord for all the support we are finding here and never let any of us go. Bless all who read this prayer, Lord, and bless all of our families.<P>I ask this in Your Holy Name, Jesus Christ of Nazareth, Only Son of the Living God. Amen.