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#339676 08/07/01 01:40 AM
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I am in great need of prayer. I have so much anger, resentment and vengence in my heart that it is scaring me. Since my husbands betrayal I have changed into a demonic individual who is so full of hatred for anything and anybody who is the least bit threatening to me.<P>I am asking the Lord to please help me and to cleanse my heart from these ill feelings. I used to be such a fun, loving, thoughtful, not always happy go lucky person, but for the most part I was.<P>Please Lord help me, lighten this burden and ease my pain. Please help me to restore love in my heart. I ask all of you to please pray for me now.<P>Amen.<P>Cathy

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Dear Cathy,<P>I have been having some mean conversation in my thoughts too today: funny you should post this mail. I keep praying on top of them and trying not to dwell in them.<P>They are like little serpents biting you at the ankles - it's a temptation to dwell in the land of vicious comebacks (or worse). Say Jesus' name when it happens. Ask Him to purify your heart. You do have to literally swat those thoughts away or the little serpents get their venom into you. If you dwell even a little bit with fantasy ideas or mean conversations, the attacks get worse and worse.<P>I am not perfect at it but I have realized that these attacks leave me after a day or so if I literally push away the thoughts and try to pray on top of them.<P>Jesus, Cathy is humble enough to realize she needs help fighting these nasty temptations. So do I, Lord. Please help us both and all those who read this to drive away the temptations by invoking Your Most Holy Name. <P>Lord, Jesus Christ, please purify our hearts so that our thoughts and words can be clean as well. Our mean thoughts are our protection because of our hurt but you want us to be hurt and not angry, meek and forgiving like you. Lord, we can't really do it without Your intervention. Please purify us so that the Holy Spirit can dwell within us. We don't want even one snake to get his venom into us. I ask this through the Name of all names, Jesus Christ, my Lord, my Savior, my God. All praise, glory and honor to You, Almighty God, Creator and Father, Savior and Son, Holy Spirit. Amen.<P>

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Lord,<BR>Let Cathy know that she has the mind of Christ and that she can resist any temptation. Help her to take every thought captive and to toss teh bad ones away. Guard her heart and mind.<BR>In Jesus' Precious Holy Name<BR>Amen


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