Oh, where to turn, what to do? How can I Plan A when I am so angry or sad all the time. I've tried not being sad (anti-depressants apparently haven't kicked in), but if I'm not sad, I am extremely angry. My H seems to be regressing, resenting me more instead of less. He said he is trying to work through it, but it seems to me that he is just getting comfortable right where he is, doing just what he's doing. <P>Due to financial problems, and the fact that I don't think I should have to take the burden of all the financial stress myself, I am planning to move out of our rental house and move in with my sister or best friend for a couple of months, and then get an apartment. H doesn't know this right now, and it will involve splitting up the bills and him paying me child support, but I have to do something to get us out of debt. When he does come home, I'd like us not to have to be stressed out about bills on top of everything else. <P>Who knows, maybe seeing me make this step will wake him up. After paying his vehicle payment, me child support, and his half of the bills, he will only have about $450 per month to spend on rent, gas, and food. He's not going to be happy about that, but oh well. Meanwhile, I will be able to save money.<P>Please pray that I am making the right move. I really don't want to move because I love my house, but I truly can't afford to keep staying there if he's not coming back, both financially and emotionally. There are just too many memories.<P>I'm hoping that being in my own place will help me to move forward a little better and leave this all in God's hands instead of interfering. I am truly depressed.<P>God bless...<BR>TIG
