Hi<P>I have not posted hear before have tended to post on general forum. My H and I have been separated for 18months, he has been living with OW, About 4 weeks ago he phoned me at 8.30am to tell me that the affair was finished and she was moving out 30 Aug. He said this changed nothing and he hoped to meet someone else and he wasn't coming home. <P>I pray for guidance every day but seem to be floundering a bit at the moment. We have 3 children - he sees two one afternoon a week for 4 hours to let me work. My oldest daughter will not speak to him. I have asked him if he would consider moving nearer to help with the children but he says no.<P>Please pray that I will have the patience and strength to continue being strong for the children.<P>Annie

I will be praying for your situation. I will pray for your husband to have a change of heart and come home where he belongs. <P>I am in a situation where my husband has left and said he is not seeing the OW and would rather be alone and homeless than be married to me. I have since found out that he is living with the OW but still wants to find his own share rental. I can't figure out why he would destroy our marriage for this WE but says it is not comfortable living with her. He says it will never work with her! This blows my mind to think he has left me and our two daughters for this life of hell. <P>My oldest daughter (16) also does not want anything to do with him. She told him if he continues on this road (he is threatening divorce) she will never accept him and he will never see his grandchildren. My youngest is very hurt but still wants to see her daddy. He has only called them once in three weeks. He came tonight and took the out for the first time in 3 weeks. I pray that he would see the damage he is causing to our children and come home. I pray your will do the same.<BR>

Thanks for your prayers.<P>Since I last posted my oldest daughter has infact spoken to her Dad. Ist time in 18 months so that is truly wonderful. <P>My prayers are with you all.<P>Annie