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I would request that you pray for my wife to open her heart towards God and myself. She filed for divorce, has lost all hope and says she will never try again. She does believe God can change people and relationships but is choosing to go against that way. She calls me a Bible beater because God has changed so many things in me and I am not the same person she married (I am a better person) I want desparately to start our marriage over in a new place and all she wants is out because she has no more love in her heart. We have a 3 year old little boy who she thinks will be fine growing up in separate lives. <P>Please pray for her to let God touch her heart and believe that anything is possible if you believe in Him.<P>thank you all

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bbf,<BR>I will say a prayer for you and your W and your family! We all know that God does perform miracles everyday! Just KEEP the faith, and He will answer your prayers!!! You gotta believe that He has already answered them!! Keep your head up and stay faithful!!<P>God Bless!<P>Krystal

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I will be praying for your marriage. visit <A HREF="http://www.restorem.org" TARGET=_blank>www.restorem.org</A> <BR>It has helped me during my stand.

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<BR> I will pray for each of you and your marriage. It sounds like your relationship with God is making her afriad of you.<BR> Maybe if you slow down and tell her how much she meens to you and that you are willing to take things slow. She will not fear you and the new Church life you have.<BR> Go slow for yes it is God that can save your marriage but it is through his use of you and her that it will work out. Slow down give her room show her love and support.<BR> Love sometimes meens letting go and showing that we are ready to work with the other person when and if they are ready. I hope this note comes to you with the love that is intended. Please go slow! Thank You, Yesitcan! Work

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I am not pushing anything because she is pushing so hard for this divorce, she moved out almost a month ago and all she says to me is let her go, all I am doig is hurting her by not letting her do this. Well I have had my marriage counselor tell me I need to move on but the marriage counselors through my church say to keep fighting. She is so against God right now and says he is leading her in a different direction from me. She is so mean and hateful in the way she says things to me but I keep being happy and cheerful through all of it. Every time I am around her I get more strength from God to deal with what ever she says to me, it is strange but a good feeling. I still get down but I have not lost hope or faith, I am a very different man now and patience is my virtue. thanks for the prayers, I know we need them, I know God can work miracles because I am nothing like the person I have been for a while but I am just like the person I used to be several years ago before I got off course.<P><BR> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Yesitcan!:<BR><B> <BR> I will pray for each of you and your marriage. It sounds like your relationship with God is making her afriad of you.<BR> Maybe if you slow down and tell her how much she meens to you and that you are willing to take things slow. She will not fear you and the new Church life you have.<BR> Go slow for yes it is God that can save your marriage but it is through his use of you and her that it will work out. Slow down give her room show her love and support.<BR> Love sometimes meens letting go and showing that we are ready to work with the other person when and if they are ready. I hope this note comes to you with the love that is intended. Please go slow! Thank You, Yesitcan! Work</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>


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