HI WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 6 YEARS AND KNOW EACH OTHER FOR 7. WE GOT MARRIED BECAUSE WE HAD "THAT FEELING" WE HAVE 2 BEAUTIFUL GIRLS 5 AND 2. WHILE RAISING THE SECOND GIRL WE DRIFTED APART. WE BOTH WORK AND HAVE LONG DAYS SO THE TIME WE ARE HOME WE ARE WITH THE CHILDREN. FOR THE PAST 7 OR 8 MONTHS WE HAVE NOTICED IT. THINGS BLEW APART WHEN SHE WENT OUT A COUPLE OF TIMES. NIGHTS WERE GETTING LONGER THEN SHE HAD A PROBLEM WITH HER CELL PHONE. SHE COULDNT RECIEVE HER MESSAGES. I THOUGHT IT WAS ODD CAUSE SHE NEVER HAS IT ON. SO I CALLED THE PHONE CO. AND RESET HER PASS. AND CHECKED HER MESSAGES. WELL IT WAS A GUY THAT I DONT KNOW. I FREAKED. THEN I FOUND OUT IT WAS A GUY FROM WORK WHO WENT OUT WITH THE GROUP ONE NIGHT. OK ITS FORGOTTEN. THE BY A GUT FEELING I CHECKED IT AGAIN. A DIFFERENT GUY. SHE SAID SHE DIDNT KNOW WHO IT WAS. AGAIN ITS FORGOTTEN. IN THE MIDST OF IT ALL WE SAID IT OUT LOUD THAT WE DRIFTED APART AND AGREED TO WORK TO GET IT BACK. NOW ALMOST 2 MONTHS LATER OF DOING EVERYTHING I NEVER DID I.E. DISHES,CLOTHES ETC. TO HELP OUT MORE THERES NO CHANGE. IF I DIDNT GRAB HER AND TELL HER I LOVE HER OR KISS HER OR HUG HER IT WOULD BE THE SAME...WHEW SORRY THIS IS SO LONG.. I TOLD HER HOW I FEEL AND SHE SAID THAT SHE CANT EXPLAIN WHY SHE FEELS THE WAY SHE DOES. I REFUSE TO LET HER GO. BUT I WILL IF SHES NOT HAPPY. IM CONFUSED PLEASE HELP!!!

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