My W is out of state over Thanksgiving and our Anniversity. We have been going through some problems the last month or so...I just haven't been meeting her needs. I told her that I wanted to try and I asked if she was willing to work on this. She said that she didn't have an answer. If she truly loves me then why wouldn't she want to work things out. She says that I have hurt and that she has built a wall around me. Am I that nieve...I really don't fully understand how I hurt her...I haven't cheated or hit her. I need help...I'm trying to get the Lord involved which is hard cause I really don't know where to start since we haven't really had a relationship. I ask whoever reads this to please pray that the Lord comes into my marriage. I know my wife loves me...she married me...I just need help in bringing the love back the way it used to be. I don't know what I would do without my loving W!!! I ask that the Lord please HELP...I can't do it without him. Thanks everyone.

Hi,<p>Don't worry, you are in good hands. There are plenty of people that will pray for you here.<p>There are a couple of books that you might want to read:<p>- Surviving the Affair : Dr W Harley<p>I know this might not sound applicable, but it really does provide a lot of help on working on your spouses needs.<p>- Loose That Man And Let Him Go : TD Jakes<p>This is a great book to get you on the right track with the Lord. It's a great inspiration for men.<p>I will pray for you now. Also, i'm creating a prayer list on this thread. Add your name to the list.<p>Plec.