I just found out that my husband has been having an affair over the internet. I was getting suspicous when he was constantly on the computer. I decided to do some checking and found out that they have been sending each other e-cards and confessing their love for one another. To make a long story short, I confronted him - he denied it - I told him to leave - he said he would break it off - a few weeks later I found out they were still calling one another on his cell, so I had to put a stop to it and call her and threaten to tell her husband. Needless to say, my husband went out and got a new cell number. In the meantime, my 15 year old daughter found out about it (she over heard us arguing) and hasn't talked to her dad since then. <p>He finally did say he was sorry. We are planning to go to my in-laws for Thanksgiving (our usual tradition) - at first I was not going then I decided if I wanted to make my marriage work I had to show my daughter that you don't run away from your problems, but try to work it out. She is against going, so please pray for us that things will go according to God's will and hopefully in time we will be able to forgive him.<p>Thank you.

sorry to say it dosent sound like he wants to give it up. <her the love connection whatever> it could be he will break it off with her then find another way to get his needs met [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]
certainly getting a new cell number is not a good sign he is willing to comply by your wishes...<p>ive been suggesting a very good book, too good to leave / too bad to stay, it might help you decide wether or not your are ready to let him go , or want to keep him in your life <he may decide this for you> <p>an internet / phone relationship is a very REAL one...they probably tell each other more than they have ever told you [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] <p>mebbe if you 2 can talk you can get to the bottom of why he felt he needed <s> her ?<p>just a thought [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr><strong>ive been suggesting a very good book, too good to leave / too bad to stay, it might help you decide wether or not your are ready to let him go , or want to keep him in your life </strong><hr></blockquote><p>Soulmate,
I want to welcome you to MarriageBuilders site. I also want to ask that you go to the home pages and read all the concepts. It sounds like, from your answer to Joani's post that you haven't done so.<p>Joani, the Harleys are experts at putting broken marriages back together. Please go to the home page from the links above this page and begin reading about all the concepts. They are spelled out,. They also have several excellent books you can read.<p>Go to the GQII forums. There is a lot more traffic there for general questions. Here, we take prayer requests and hold each other up. We will pray for you and your WH (that's "MB talk" for Wayward Husband!).<p>God Bless,
Lupo