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#340527 12/07/01 06:27 PM
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My WH has decided that he is leaving in January. He has told me that he needs to move on.<p>He also tells me that he loves me, that he is afraid that this is the biggest mistake of his life.<p>He seems so close sometimes to choosing to come back to our M. But then his guilt and shame well up and he feels he needs to leave in order to not have to face it. He does not understand that the guilt and shame will be with him forever until he asks me and God to forgive him.<p>Please pray for my H to see the light, he needs to be home and to choose to re-build his M and family. I need a Chrstmas Miracle, just as we all do.<p>Thank You All
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#340528 12/07/01 06:56 PM
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Dear Lord,<p>Please be with needing tonight! She is crying out to you Lord. We know that You are a loving, caring God! I lift up needing and her family to You, Lord. You know what is needed. You know her H's heart. Lord, let him understand that forgiveness is one of Your promises to us. Let him see that if You can forgive him , then Needing can, too! Please be with this family, and comfort them during these trials. Let them all see Your spirit working in their lives. Thank You for everything, we love You and praise Your holy name! In Jesus' precious name!<p>Amen<p>needing---just put All you faith in HIM, and all will be well! I am praying for you!<p>Hugs,
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Thank you, thank you so much. Just reading those words has made me cry. And it's the first time today. I know my whole family is praying for me, but they do not know all of the details (the A) and so it is very hard for me to talk to them right now. Thank you.

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needing--<p>Believe me, I have seen miracles in my own life since I gave everything up to the Lord! You can't imagine the change in my H and in me! The Lord is so faithful and always keeps His promises. We all (including me) just need a little more faith! Hugs to you! I have been there (where you are) and know that I am standing beside you, too, while you are going through this---You are not alone!<p>Hugs,
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#340531 12/07/01 11:47 PM
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Heavenly Father, I ask for healing for needing and her H. I lift both of them up to you. Turn needing's H's heart back toward YOU first, and then his family. Father, I ask that you give needing the peace that passes all understanding. Give her the strength to hold on. You know the plans you have for her. I ask for your continued mercy and grace upon needing and her family. I ask all of these things in your precious son Jesus' name.<p>AMEN<p>MOM

#340532 12/09/01 01:39 AM
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Thank You MoM. <p>We need so much prayer right now. I just know we could have a wonderfull M and family again if he would just let his defenses down and let me back in.<p>Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.

#340533 12/08/01 08:32 PM
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Dear needing, I've been where you are at - I prayed and believed that God would save my marriage - but God's answer was "no" - remember that prayers are always answered but we forget the no's. I'm telling you this because I spent far too long not listening to the "no" and when I finally heard God - my life became full beyond even my wildest dreams - I only wish someone would have told me this them. Maybe your answer will be "yes" but listen to him.

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renee k,<p>I am listening, with all my heat. I am sure that God wants me to have this M. When I am quiet and just listen I feel a such a sense of peace and comfort, I just know that this is right.<p>My H is so close, he just gets scared and backs away.<p>I will not give up faith, in God or my H.

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dear needing - my prayers are with you.

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dear needing - my prayers are with you.


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