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#340922 03/08/02 08:38 AM
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We have been married for 11 months. Our anniversary is 3/31/2002. We have been having serious issues with not having sex and my husband not meeting my emotional needs. I could never understand what the problem was. He would constantly make excuses for his actions and say he would work on it. In January, I got so fed up with him, I left him. He did not call or did not try to look for me. Finally, a week later, I get a phone call that he wants to talk and work on our marriage. He begs me to come back home and acts like a loving husband for about a week. Then we are back to him not meeting my needs. We argue about the same stuff different day. Finally, last Friday, we had a big blow out about him not giving me any sex. I told him he had me backed up against a wall because he is supposed to supply me with sex and he is not doing it. He got angry and told me if I did not like it, I could just leave. I told him no, you are going to leave. So, he left me on Friday and Tuesday, I discover that has been using internet porn and masturbating. I confronted him and he finally confessed but he said that he was through with me and he was filing for divorce. I asked him on what grounds and he could not answer me. Now I don't hear from him nor does even try to communicate. I am absolutely miserable. The one thing I can say is that my husband was not raised like this. He family has very strong religious values and up until recently, I thought he did too. He is the only one in his family that is in marriage number 2. (With me) He left his first wife because she confronted his issues and he could not take it. Also, he was only about 24 then. Now he is 33 and trying to walk out on this marriage because he has been exposed. I just don't know what to do. I have been fasting and praying and hoping that he would have a change of heart. But to no avail. The sad part is the guy he is staying with has a porn problem too. Please pray for my husband to not divorce me and to turn his heart and mind to God. Please pray for the Lord to give me strength through all of this.

#340923 03/08/02 09:55 AM
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morton,<p>Trust in God to get you through this.<p>Lord we lift up this husband to you and we ask you to break him of all bondages that are separating him from this marriage. We bind and rebuke the enemy from their lives. Lord we ask that you change the hearts of this husband and wife and that they would have a marriage as you would make it. Father we ask in Jesus name. Amen<p>Morton, go to www.restoreministries.net for more of what God can do and how to pray.<p>Faithwalk


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