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PLEASE PRAY FOR ME!!!! The FBI is coming to my house THIS MORNING to talk to me about my brother-in-law. (My HUSBAND'S BROTHER) I stumbled across child porn on his computer. I was horrified!!! I told my sister....I didn't know what to do. She turned him in! My husband doesn't know! Please pray for God to give me wisdom in what I say! [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img]

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so teejay,<p>Howd it go? I prayed after the fact but God knows all things. You OK?<p>Blessings,
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Thank you for the prayer! It went surprisingly fine! The FBI "officer?" was soooooooo easy to talk to, and made me feel at ease. (At least as well as can be expected under these circumstances!) Anyway, after I described what I saw, he told me that it was a FEDERAL OFFENSE, and they were going to persue it. Keep praying. I know I did the right thing, but, this is my BROTHER IN LAW!!!! [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]

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You did exactly the right thing! I counsel sexual abuse victims and so many of them relate that pron was involved in the offender's life. This may have been a step toward something far more horrible. Do not cringe or fear, your are very brave and honorable for doing this.

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teejay,
Have you thought about telling your husband?

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I have thought about telling H of the FBI. However, I'm truly afraid that he would call his brother and the computer would mysteriously "disappear" or something.......so, for the sake of my niece and nephew, I'm not saying anything to my H. I've had this GUT feeling for a while that something "wasn't right" in the relationship between my niece & brother-in-law. When I saw the child porn on his computer, it made that "gut" feeling more intense.
Thanks for asking...please keep praying! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]


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