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Hi,<p>Please pray that the OW leaves the relationship either on her own, or because my H, ends it. I also ask that he never has another A again. I pray that I have a happy and fulfilled M with my current H. <p>I've read in other posts that you turn it over to god, how do you do that?
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<p>[ June 01, 2002: Message edited by: SueofMinnesota ]</p>
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Sue, you have to come to a point where you realize that there is NOTHING you can do that God CANT and just ask him to help you and to leave it with him. Read the bible. The scripture tells us that he will never leave us or forsake us and that in this world we will have trails and tribulations but we must trust in him. We must trust that God will always want to give us what is best for us and he sometimes uses these trials to change us and to make us better. Ask him to show you what he wants to do in this trial to you, your marriage and your husband. Pray for his peace that surpasses all understanding. Have you ever read that poem about the footprints in the sand - God is carrying you right now. Just trust in him, love him and God will reveal himself to you.
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Pain and Faith,<p>Thank you for understanding. I don't even know where my bible is. I think it never got unpacked when we moved in the house. Gives me reason to go through the unpacked boxes. I hope it was not in the box my H through out when we had some stuff stored at his moms. Basement got flooded. I can always get another one.<p>I've been doing Plan A, and I keep praying that it works. He has softened up with me, but he still leaves me for hours. He mentioned seeing a movie with his brother tonight. I keep hoping that this is the truth. I don't want to distrust him.
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