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i really need help... i have been seperated since 3/2001 and divorced since 10/2001. i still love my exh very much and have tried to change behaviors and attitudes that jeoperdize our reconcillation. i have not done so well to date. i don't want to dwell on what he is doing, but what i need to do. i just want to focus on me. pls pray for my strength to grow... i have been thingking that i need to let go, but have not been able to. we have not stopped seeing each other and we are still intimate, but when we fight so many hrtful things are said. it would not be fair for me to point my finger at him, cuz at times i start it too... today he just told me he was sick of me and he never wanted to talk to me again. i am so sad cuz everytime this happens i know it could be the last time, and it always feels like the last time. especially today. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />
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If you are divorced and not planning to reconsile then I would say that you should stop being intimate with your EX-H. I'm not sure why you would continue to do so, but IMHO it would be demeaning to have sexual relations with someone who had no interest in a serious relationship.
I will pray that you find the strength to move on with your life and find peace with the reality of this relationship.
Are you involved with a church? Many churches have divorce and recovery groups that could be a great help to you. Peace to you, Ladysing
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i guess that is the hard part. i do want to reconcile... i am still very much in love with this man and we still are very involved with each others lives. its just that he is living single and i am living less than single.
i am not currently a member of any particular church. i do attend, but not as frequently as i should. i am very emotionally torn and have a hard time doing the basic things to help myself. i am taking meds, but i still feel that i am loosing ground at times...
i don't have any bitter feelings towards my ex. just hurt. i want things to work our for us. that is my hearts desire. but i also understand the Will of God... and i do pray that God will let me see, understand, know and accept His Will for me and my ex. we are both Christians and we both know the principals. we seem to have disconnected ourselves from what we know to be right.
i don't really think that my prayer request is to move on, my request is to know God's Will for my life and my marriage...
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