I need lots of prayers. My W of 20 years had EA with former lover - long distance. It may have lasted a couple yrs before discovery. She says its over.

I pray for the words and wisdom to work this thru. I need to be firm in my own convictions and sensitive to her pain. We both say D is not an option and I have faith that we can work this out. I am just so uncomfortable with confrontation (which may have led to the "A" in the first place).

I am torn up inside over the "A", but I also don't want to lose her. I get depressed thinking both ways about it. Please keep me in your prayers as I hope to redirect our M to something long lasting.

<small>[ August 15, 2002, 05:12 PM: Message edited by: searching2 ]</small>