I'm in a twist between confused and frustrated and anger. My husband is addicted to Internet, etc. Pornagrphy. He say's that he lookes at it becuase he's not getting what he wants from me so he has to go get it somewhere else. I feel like he is cheating on me (although it's with the computer) but he chats with these girls and I'm so afraid that he is going to go to hell and not realize it. Please help me to pray for him. I'm a true blue Christian, and I need God's help before I go insane. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> Franniebellmc@aol.com

Yes, he is having an affair if he is getting anything from them that he should be getting from you. Mine is addicted to the internet and has been chatting with females while he plays games on the Zone. One of them he had an EA with for 4 months. He still spends alot of time on the net-more than I like. Someone gave me another site to visit-www.marriagehealing.org-which has showed me that I had things to take care of while God took care of my husband. Don't get me wrong-I interfere plenty because I just can't leave things alone, but I am finding rather quickly that the days go better when I try to work on becoming the kind of wife and woman God wants me to be an let God deal with my H. I pray over the computer before he gets home and I pray over my house claiming our marriage, etc. Whatever it takes. Try the site-they have an on-line prayer room where they will talk to you, pray with you and give you guidance. It is helpful. Good luck and God Bless.