Tuesday I found an email from the OW which was the first proof I had that one existed. My husband claimed he had intended for me to see it anyway. We discussed-calmly-that if he was going to continue the behavior-it couldn't be in our home with me and our son. We discussed the financial inpact of his moving untill he got his head out of his *** and agreed it would be the best for the family at this point. The conversation was a long one, but at the end of it he asked "what if I call this whole thing off-close the emails, send her a letter stopping the whole thing-stay off the internet,etc." I really was caught offguard and answered "I would say thank you" (pretty lame, but the best I could do at the time). He went home-did all those things in front of me and left the email open for her to have one opportunity to say her piece (which he thought was fair) and she did email back an angry hurt response. Then we blocked her address. Last night he went to a session of couple's counseling with me and participated well, I thought. But he came home early yesterday from work, won't talk to me about anything very relevant when we are home and acts like I have a dread disease. This was all his idea, not mine. Now my mind is running on. That this was all a huge story they made up because I found the email. That he came home so that he could call and talk to her and try to patch it up, etc. I need prayer to keep on track here, before I do anymore damage with my mouth. Thanks. kelli
