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I AM FEELING VERY ALONE. I WANT MY HUSBAND BACK SO MUCH THAT IT HURTS. I AM BEGINNING TO THANK HE HAS FEELINGS FOR THIS OTHER WOMAN. HE WILL NOT STOP SEEING HER HIS SAYS THEY JUST TALK I THINK IT IS ALL ABOUT SEX HE SAYS NO. I AM WEARING THIN. I AM VERY DEPRESSED. WE NEED LOTS OF PRAYERS TO HEEL HIS HEART AND GET HIM OUT OF THE FOG. I NEED STRENGTH. PLEASE HELP
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I just prayed for your situation.
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Lord, I pray that you would wrap your arms around this spouse who is hurting. Bring people into her life that can give her support during this difficult time. Give her strength. I pray that you would make it so clear to this husband that this relationship with OW is hurting their marriage. Break the soul ties this H has with OW and lift the fog so he can realize what damage he is causing. Turn him back to his wife. I pray this in Jesus name, Amen
Hey S&C! could you add rodgersho to your prayer list? thx
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Thanks so much fo the prayer. I really did need it. Saturday was really hard. Every weekend is hard. He goes out and does what ever he wants without thinking what it does to me. I have never been so hurt in my whole life. I am stuck and no where to go.
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R,
I know the emotional pain is incredible. There are some really good ladies on the emotional needs forum that I think can help you.
ta-kola, pacificprincess and sweetannie come to mind.
Have you posted on any other forum here? Please let me know. Have you read the basic concepts and about plan A/B yet?
I will keep praying for you. Please Lord give R strength and peace in her heart today. Bring some other ladies into her life that can support her and help her. Touch her right now I pray, In Jesus name, Amen.
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I am reading How to Survive an Affair and I have read His Needs and Her Needs. My husband also listed to the tapes of His Needs, Her Needs.
Last night I went by his appartment and she was there I told him it was over that I give up. If he wants a divorce go and file. She is trash she bi-sexual and it makes me sick. Last night was not easy and today has been hard. I don't know where I will go from here. I wich I did not love him anymore but I do. It hurts so bad.
NO I have not been in any other forum.
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Have you said its over before to him? Are you basically doing a plan B? I'm sorry you are hurting so bad. I will be praying for you.
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R- there are so many of us in here that know exactly how you are feeling. Tired, left behind. God knows too. When it all seems hopeless, remember that He is there with you.
I will pray and call out your situation to our Father, who cares about ALL thing. Kelli
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R,
Dear Lord I pray that this weekend this H will not
abandon his W. That he does not go out and meet with this OW. Make circumstances such that they will not be able to see each other. Bless this couple and start the restoration of their marriage. Help this H see the error of his ways and what pain he is causing his W. I pray in Jesus name, amen.
I hope this weekend goes better for you, LW
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