Greg and I have been married for 16 yrs. A week after our anniversary, he tells me that he thinks that we have grown apart. He suggests separation. I suggest counseling. Since we've been seeing the counselor, I have found out that after I lost my job of 8 yrs, I wnet into a depression and withdrew from everyone. At the same time, our sexual relations dropped to practically nothing. Then, in Sept. 02, I was diagnosed with genital herpes. I have been faithful and I know he has as well. I believe that my disease was misdiagnosed since I was raped and lost my virginity at 18 (I'm 44 now) He thinks that I must have had an affair. Unfortunately, there is a female that has been adding fuel to the fire. (enough said re. her) I believe that nothing has happened with them (so far) but... Now, he feels that he dosen't love me any more... I'm scared! I'm very insecure, and it seems that everytime we take a babystep forward, we take at least one step backward... <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> Please pray for our marriage to grow strong once again and that Greg has his eyes opened to his false "friends" Thank you! Carol

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