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Well my anger and selfishness finalley caught up with me. she won'ts a divorce. I have 2 kids 2-7 I do not won't this to happen. I wonder why this is the 2nd time that she has stated that she wonted a divorce back in 1997 I went to counceling until my funding ran out it helped she finally went and we worked through this but I went back to my same old self and I know that every time she says divorce I jump up and call the preacher and talk tell her I am going to counceling and do better. I need people to pray for me that I can get help and stick to this plan because I love this girl.

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delta1010:

No one can change themselves. REAL change has to come from the inside to the out. This real change comes from the heart...from God.

If you are serious about changing, and NOT JUST "getting her back, and keeping her" then you don't need money for counseling. You need God.

Go to church. Counsel with a pastor/priest. Talk to God. Get on your knees. He will change you. He wants to save your M.

More important than your M, tho, God wants YOU. He wants your heart. He wants you to turn your whole life and all these problems over to Him. Pray now that He takes over this mess, and changes your heart, and your W's heart, and put your family back together and soften her heart.

Good luck.


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