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There is strong testimony and circumstancial evidence that my wife is still lying to me about her A's. I don't know why. She's admitted to adultery. My wife has been lying about many things and she "worth" as a liar is great. If she is still lying how can our marriage work out? I need to know for certain and this is so hard, she is sticking to her story and her friend is sticking to hers. The circumstancial evidence points to my wife lying. Please pray that she repents and confesses the entire truth. I am struggling so bad. My marriage is teetering on divorce. I need God to save it.
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PETER,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you in this time. Stay strong my friend. God's will is being done. I pray that your's, mine and the others here spouses are convicted by the Holy Spirit to do what is right for their marriages.
God bless
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PeterMG,
My ex-WS lies all the time. He lies about stuff not even worth lying about. For instance, OW is pregnant with his child. He told me that they had only done it once around the time she conceived, which made me think she did it on purpose. Instead, they had done it like 5-10x. What does that matter when she is pregnant, for crying out loud? It doesn't. What matters is that he lied. He lied because he is in a FOG and he is in an ADDICTION and he doesn't want to "hurt me" as he puts it- but really he doesn't want to hurt himself. HE can't stop the lies, I firmly believe, until he wakes up and sees the big picture. He isn't thinking clearly, he was never a liar before all this mess- it is just a devastating symptom of the problem. SO believe me, they lie over things that shouldn't matter- and they just don't "get it". I will continue to pray that they all come out of the FOG- then they will realize what they are doing.
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My prayers were answered. I am rejoicing in the truth! PRAISE GOD! I got PROOF that she is still lying. For more details go to this post: http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=31;t=010374 and see my reply entered April 21, 2003 12:29 PM. THANK YOU ALL FOR PRAYING WITH/FOR ME!!! <small>[ April 21, 2003, 05:50 PM: Message edited by: petermg ]</small>
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Petermg,
I am sorry you found out that you are right, but glad you found out you were right. I would feel so much better knowing all the lies were out, no matter how nasty they were. How long has your W wanted a Divorce ? I saw that you said the A's were 2.5 years ago so I just wondered. I hope you are able to go on peacefully!!
God bless.
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