Hi,
I was on these boards a couple of years ago as dear H had a huge affair while I was pg with our first child. With God's help, I didn't kill him, he came back, and we recovered...I forgave him and we even had another child (a surprise blessing) Anyway, he finally left. Things are (were) super tense 2 weeks ago...and for the last 3 months really...so I finally went to a lawyer. He is going after my H with all guns loaded, and of course, H has been precious since then though he knows nothing about the lawyer yet. I have been praying about whether to proceed, how to proceed, for discernment into my H's motives for being so kind. I'm glad I found these boards again. Please pray that God will show me which way to go with this. It is so difficult to do what you think is right for yourself and kids, knowing it will hurt someone you still love dearly (but probably don't much respect anymore)

Thanks
Kim

Kim
I am so sorry to hear he repeatedly shows you disrespect and shows no faithfulness to you.

I think you need to do what is good for you and your children.

he pretty much has shown you that he is not going to forsake all others and might even bring aids or some other std into your life.

I think you have been more then patient praying he would change.
It is time for you to do something before things
get more complicated.

I don't know how you can even look at him.
I feel concerned about you and the children,
I just hope he is not the violent type.
Perhaps you need to do what needs to be done
quickly before you start having a change of heart again. I know by experience we try to believe they will change "THIS TIME" but it proves futile because most of the time they continue to let us down with the patern they already have proved they will continue to slap us in the face.

with enough rope he is going to hang himself.
Know I will pray for you and your childrens safety.
God bless you. Keep on keeping on.
It won't be easy.
but in the long run
it will take time to get through it all
but someday you will look back and wonder why
you waited after the first time.
God is with you. HE will provide and guide you!
Look to Him and ask Him to continue to show you what to do, He will..I know you do not have to live like that.
again. Keep on keeping on.
if you need to talk. I am sure I am alot older then you I am 59 going on 60 female grown children and grandma of 4. so If you want to talk off the boards write me.. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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