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#343085 08/08/03 09:38 PM
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I have never outright asked anyone to pray for me but I think it is past due. I feel like this coming week with be the end of my marriage, and i am trying so hard to save it. My wh wants to give up and go to the other woman. He is in a fog annd desperately needs some guidance, because he is about to make a cruel mistake. Hhe is abouut to hrt his children and his family, and me. He saays he loves me and always will.
YOUr prayers will be greatly appreciated and I hope verry powerrful.
Thank you from my heart,
Daizy

#343086 08/12/03 02:39 PM
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you are in my thoughts and my prayers...It is my hope that this was the first step for you to reaching out to others in asking for prayer and support....Lord wrap yoiur arms around this woman, help her to heal and to follow your wishes and to walk this path set before in your spirit. AMen

#343087 08/15/03 08:40 AM
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Thank you so much!
This is hard and I hope it will have a happy ending.

#343088 08/15/03 09:24 AM
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Daizy

Prayer is a strong weapon and tool for healing others and yourself. I want you to know I have been watching for your name to pop up so I could see how you are doing and feeling...Know that there alot of people who care. Right now it seems as if noone does and th eworld has ended but trsut in the Lord for noone who comes up againest one of his children shall prosper. Keep us posted and feel free to find me to prayer for you or with you.

#343089 08/15/03 03:15 PM
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Daizy, My heart breaks with you as I have been where you are as I am a BS as well. I am so sorry that you are feeling that desperation that I and many others here are so familiar with.
I did not know about this site until after my FWH ended the A and returned home so the only guidance I had was God and my own instincts. We have been in recovery for 2 years and doing good.This site and this forum has been a great help and support to me and the rebuilding of our M.
I went back and read some of your other posts. The situation will be far more difficult if not unworkable as long as your WH works with or has any contact with the OW. I know.My FWH worked with the FOW,too. I have endured great struggles with that situation in recovery.I highly recommend the rules and advice of Dr. Harley.Read,read,read.The best advice is there, along with the people on this forum.
I will be praying for you even after this post.
"Heavenly Father,we come before You with humble,yet broken hearts.I know that you understand how our hearts and souls are frayed and tattered by this betrayal that has come into our lives and we ask for your help and healing.
God, I pray for Daizy.I know so well what she is going through and I would remove all of the pain,confusion,devastation, and lonliness from her life if I had the power. I do not have that power but you do and I ask for your help in giving her the strength to sustain her through this dark and trying time.Oh,God,I can feel what she feels and I am torn for her.I ask you to please hear and honor this prayer and the prayers of others sent to you on her behalf. I thank you for all you have done in our lives and for all that you are going to do." kk

<small>[ August 16, 2003, 02:33 PM: Message edited by: kings kid ]</small>

#343090 08/18/03 03:28 PM
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Thank you all for your prayers. My H is moving out this Saturday after he tells the kids. The kids are the ones I'm worried about the most. They will be truely devastated and totally blindsided by this. I have been updating my current situation in the "recovery" section under the title of "Hopeless, Hopeful, or just plain over" (sorry, I don't know how to do the link thing).
Thanks again!


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