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I am real sad tonight. I am a loving and beautiful person who loved my H so much. His affair and this divorce are tearing me and the children apart. I want him to come home and try to work it out so bad that I am overwhelmed with frustration. How can he not see how much me and the girls are worth it. How can the OW words be so meaningful to him? The same words that I have probably said to him a million times. I will probably be single in less than a month and I am so lost. I cry many nights thinking how much my H and the OW have turned my "perfect" life upside down. How can God allow me to feel so much pain? I have prayed every night since he has left (APRIL) and I feel like God has deserted me. HELP
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Hello <BR>I really don't have any answers for you but wanted you to know that I did read your note and felt your pain. My H had an emotional affair and is still at home with me. Our stories are different but the same. I understand that the pain can almost take your breath away. Know that as my counselor told me. You can thrive without your H. You need to put Jesus on the throne and know that he has you in the palm of his hand. Jesus has not left you even though you feel alone. Look to making yourself and children happy. Focus on the Lord, Keep your eyes up. Know that I am preaching to myself as I type this because today was a bad day for me too. God Bless and I will pray for you.<BR>A friend.
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Dear M,<P>Your pain is so evident. It is still so raw. <P>I know how angry you feel, and how hopeless. But, wouldn't you like to learn from this, and maybe as an added benefit - save your marriage? That is why you are here, right?<P>Please read NSR's post to overcomer. It has great and wonderful links and suggestions to help you survive-overcome and maybe even save your marriage.<P>Post post post post post.<P>Read......<P>God bless.<BR>Hugs to you ((((Mental))))<BR>TNT
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I just want to say that this forum in great. I have been watching others talk for months and afraid to speak up myself IN FEAR someone would find out who/what is going on in my world. You people are so caring a truely want to help each other. I read someones thread that said we can begin healing by helping others. Mental/TNT and NSR gave me so many words of encouragement last night during a low time and I appreciate it. I hate it when I get this low, its as if when I get there it is not possible to come back up again. But the Lord brings each new day with a piece of hope that things will get better, somehow/someway.
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Mental -I'm so sorry for your pain. I know how much it hurts.<P>I do wish there was something that I could say to you to make it go away. Just know that we are here and we care.<P>(((((((((((Mental)))))))))))))<P>Lori
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