OK, this may be contrary, and I may well just be posting this too late at night, but here goes…<P>With the double-blind posting going on here by Arik and Nicole, I think Arik needs a little boost. The guy is obviously faltering bigtime, and ANYTHING we can do will help. What I propose is a little thing, but it might help in the "act as if" category.<P>When replying to Arik, don't refer to him as "2 Soulmates." I know I'm not the only one this has bothered, but something has to be said. He has only <B>ONE</B> Soulmate, and that's Nicole… even if he doesn't realize it yet. I think that's why I'm making this post… even one chink in the fantasy armour, by letting Arik know that <B>WE</B> know Nicole is the "only" one for him… hey… it can't hurt, right??? It's a fantasy buster. <P>BTW… if anyone has a contrary opinion, I'll be more than happy to listen. <P>And I'll tell you what, Arik… change your nick, and I'll delete this thread, OK??? <P><BR>------------------<BR>Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die<p>[This message has been edited by WhoDat (edited November 26, 1999).]

WhoDat<BR>Stand corrected and will edit!<P>------------------<BR>Faith, Hope, Love Remain,<BR>but the greatest of these is Love.<BR>1 Corinthians 13:13

WhoDat. Great idea!!! I hate that name too. <P>Heading back to edit now.<BR>Lori

Hooooboy! Am I with you on this one. See my post on his thread.<P>Later,<P>Dunc

Will do now.<P>NSR, if you are reading here - I LOVED your post!!! You need to consider counseling as a second profession! <P>Roll Me Away<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>

Hey, without reading this I replied and begged him to change it <B>TWICE</B> <P>I must be one smart cookie!!<P>------------------<BR>Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it you are among the stars!!

So Arik… should I remove this, or leave it as an object lesson??? <P>I vote for the latter, but I made the pledge to remove it should you so desire… so lemme know. <BR><P>------------------<BR>Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die