I am requesting prayer for my wife. She left almost 3 years ago and is currently engaged to another man but has yet to sign the divorce papers?? She recently has talked to me about a possible reconciliation. But she is very confused and afraid to try again because she feels that she is unworthy of God's love and forgiveness for the adultery issues in our marriage. I just pray for her to find peace and be able to move on in her life in whichever direction that she chooses. Of course, I am also requesting prayer that God intervenes and breaks the adulterous relationship up because I know that with God in the center, our marriage would work. Thanks to all for all of your prayers.

Jeff15679,

I am praying for you. Still don't know much about your situation; whether or not WW is at home or not and if you have be able to do a Plan A. If she feels you are her "best friend and a great father"; then you probably have not been meeting her top EN's. You need to find a way to do that. Otherwise she will continue to get some needs met by you, and others by OM. She will not see a reason to stop the A. As they say in on MB, she's a "cake eater"; she's having her cake and eating it too. At the expense of both you and the OM. All she really wants, is to have her most important needs met.

So my prayer is that you will understand how to love her in a way that she can perceive and that it meets her most important needs. And that your W will see you meeting those needs and breaking off her relationship w/ the OM.

You have a long road ahead of you. Trust God to help you through and be strong.

Bless you.

S&C