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Well now it is the day after Thanksgiving. My H has had the girls since Wednesday evening and has them until Sunday. I miss them so much. He won't let them call me because I might "brainwash" them on the phone. Just knowing I can't hear their sweet little vioces until Sunday just kills me. This is the first time that he has had them so long. Usually he returns them early or doesn't take them at all of scheduled visitation. But he has them up at his moms and the his family is there to watch them when he feels the urge to go out and drink. They will come back so sad inside and then it kills me more. Boy, I would love to thank him and this wonderful OW that has torn this family to pieces. I hope the OW and her H choke on a turkey bone. Maybe he could too.<BR>
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Good Morning Mental<BR>You know I get alot of advise to go and do something good for myself. Maybe since you are alone this weekend you can TRY (i know it is hard) to go do something you wouldn't normally do, by yourself. Determine that you are worth happiness, you deserve happiness. I try to tell myself that alot when I get down. This one person in my life will not cause my whole life to go to cane. I will be happy and enjoy the time God has given me. Know also that I do get in those pits like yesterday. I do thank you for your word of last night.
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Hi Mental...<P>Sorry for your sadness...<P>My W also got the kids... but for me it's just until 2PM tody... Then I'll be off MB for a good part of the day!<P>I hope you haven't tied yourself into some kind of legal visitation restrictions...<P>I made sure my kids can call me anytime <B>they</B> want... and I can reach them (almost) anytime!<P>Because I had to counter-file for a divorce... I was able to get restraining orders against my W's OM.... no overnights with my kids... and he(OM) can't come into my house anymore...<P>Prayers for you and you family... ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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