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First I want to thank all of you for taking the time to visit and share your thoughts and feelings with everyone. You are truly a blessing to each and everyone of us. Secondly, I know there are no words that I can express more to you than the words of an aching heart. My heart hurts for myself and for my two boys. I have asked for prayers here recently and, thank you, have received some. I again ask you to pray for me and my family. Satan is having a field day choking our hearts and I just pray that God builds a hedge of protection around me and my boys that this marriage and family be restored. Husband left four months ago and is with OW. She has three children of her own and I just don't understand how he can give up on his own family for hers. That is not for me to understand, I know. God has a plan and I only today have realized that I must let Him do his work, but I also cannot go a day without asking for prayers. Please pray for us, pray that my husband, and all spouses here, 'WAKE-UP' and realize that there is nothing more valuable on the steeet than you already have at home, someone that loves you unconditionally and two boys that adore you. What else could a person want? I don't know. There are a few things I want to share with you guys - I found it on a 'marriage tools' website - 'If it seems your marriage has suffered too much to be repaired, that the damage is too great, remember this: The most valuable treasure is the one almost lost, and love forged in the fire is stronger than steel.' and this one 'Believe it or not, in all but the most extreme cases, it takes a LOT less work to turn the light back on in marriage than to start over from scratch.' - So if anyone needs my H's address so they can send these to him, let me know (lol) - if I can be of assistance to anyone else, I will be happy to help out. Please pray for me today - I am actually have an emotional tug-of-war day and it is killing me inside. I love my husband and I want nothing more in this world than to be a family again - as do my boys. God help him to see what he has - we are worth the effort. Thank you for listening - again.

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Heavenly Father, You instructed us to pray unceasingly until the answer came. Father, I unite in prayer with this child of Yours for the waking up of her husband. That he would see what he is doing is wrong, that it violates Your marriage laws. Father, I would ask that You bring this other woman to salvation. Show her Your truth, and bring her to repentence. Father God, restore a right spirit in this man, in this marriage. Heal and restore the intimacy that You had determined it to have. We plead the blood of Jesus over this marriage, that You would forgive it's sin, and bring it back into perfect alignment with Your will. In Jesus name. Amen

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Thank you from the bottom of my heart for such a beautiful prayer. For this moment, my heart is at ease - God Bless You for praying what I couldn't - I pray so much - I sometimes don't know what to say. God be with you and keep you in his everlasting light.

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Father, show this man that not only is he breaking the heart of his wife and sons, but also, Your Loving Heart. Enable him to see that You are ready to forive him his transgressions, as is his wife, when he is ready to humble himself before You. Remove him from the fog Satan has placed him in. Divide the the unholy union he has with the other woman and her children. Encircle his heart with Your Mecry and Grace, allowing him to see his wrongs.
This we ask in Jesus' Name. Amen.


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