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Please pray for our marriage. H and OW have worked at the same place since D-day and that was hard enough to deal with and now she has gotten herself moved to my H's office and sits right behind him and I am devastated. I can't deal with it. I feel she is a threat to our marriage. She was even chatting with my H during smoke breaks even though he has told her no contact other than work related. I fear that he will be tempted by her now that she is in such close proximity. He has been trying so hard to find a new job so he can get away from her but has had no luck. I have prayed and continue to pray that he finds a new job...I feel no hope and I am scared to death...I can't live with this...I can't eat, sleep, and I cry everyday while he is at work.....So please pray that he gets a new job soon or that OW gets moved out of that office....I am soooo tired of this pain. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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Hopeful Again,
I too work with my OW. I have no contact with her other than work related issues. I'm finding that even this is too much. I hate coming to work to be reminded of the pain I've caused my wife.
I will agree in prayer with you concerning a new job for your H. I too am looking for new work but it has been hard to find. I believe God will open doors for each of us.
Father I pray for Hopeful, her H and me. Please lead us to new jobs that will enable us to leave our past behind. Father I pray that these new jobs will have the same if not better pay, benefits and time for family. We believe you are able. We will trust that you are working a plan for our good and YOUR GLORY!
In Jesus Name...
Amen,
Hang in there Hopeful, because your screen name says it all. HOPEFUL!
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Titleist, God Bless you for praying for us. I pray for you as well. I pray both you and my H are able to find a new job soon. In Jesus name, Amen.
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Hopeful,
Please keep me posted. I will continue to PUSH. (Pray Until Something Happens). See my post in the prayer request section for further explanation.
God hears and we know when he hears he will answer. Wait patiently for his response.
Titleist
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