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Well, it's been some time since I have posted and I have had some things to come about since my D. My EW has gotten engaged to her OM and plan to marry next month. They went 40 miles away from our town to his home town to visit a church to get married in. I feel after everything that happened it was shocking that someone could stand at Gods alter and exchange vows!! If I am to marry again I want to do it in our church(our wedding was not in a church). I want to seek Gods will for my life and, if to marry again, marry the person God has put in my life and vow it at His alter. I feel you must be living and trying to seek Gods will before He will bless it. Anyway, I am doing pretty good. Taking it a day at a time and seeking God above all things. I do still have some bitterness over what has happened. Does anyone have any input on getting rid of this? I have tried very hard to let go and it is getting easier by the day. I have realized that God has a plan for my life and I shall seek it.God bless!!
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Does anyone have any input on getting rid of this? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You have answered your own question --
I have tried very hard to let go and it is getting easier by the day. This is the only way - to pray & take it day-by-day. My prayers are with you!
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Does anyone have any input on getting rid of this? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">One thing that helped me get rid of the bitterness I was feeling was remembering
Matthew 6:14-15 "If ye forgive men their trepasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. Bit if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."
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Mark 11:25 " When ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any......"
I KNEW I wanted my prayers to be heard, and I didn't want anything hindering that..........soooo, I knew what I had to do!
God Bless,
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