I have so much on my hands right now and I am wondering if you can pray for me?

right now we have no money for food(we do have some) to pay our bills and rent. they are threatning to turn off our electric on the 23rd if we dont come up with 600 dollars. we have no way or fiances to get back to church and the church cant provide us transportation:( my husband is getting depressed and he wants to start drinking and it seems like the only thing i can do right now is to pray for him. so if you can please pray that this situation gets worked out and pray that im strong for my husband.

The other situation is that my husband cheated on me a year ago before we were married. he slept with my cousin and I forgave him and her. but my problem is that everythime i look at her i see what happened between the two of them. He was the one that confessed she didnt. I really need help in healing and moving on and learning to either not have her in my life or have her in my life without thinking about what happened. please pray that i heal and move on. im glad i found this webiste:)

Sorry you have so much on your shoulders. I will pray for you. Just trust God with everything. Everything, small and large.

Ask God to help you to forgive them both. We can only forgive through God. I know you forgave them, but every time you remember due to seeing her or whatever, you must ask God to help you forgive them again.

Remember ,our sin is as bad as anyone else's sin.
If we want to be forgiven much, we must forgive much ourselves. Forgiving is a process. A process that takes time and God's help.

gentle

Dear Wifeofadecon,

I too am going thru a similar situation. My H had an A with my blood sister for a little over 2 years. During those 2 years I was pregnant with my first child, then a second and I am now pg with our 3rd. I was 7 months along when the A was revealed to me.

I cannot tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I did to make me feel better. My H was the one who revealed the affair and my sister has denied everything. I know in my heart my H would never make up all these things knowing how much it would hurt me. I chose to forgive my H and we are in recovery now re-building our M.

I am here too, because I cannot find it in my heart to forgive my sister for what she has done. I am trying, but by her denying everything and saying my H was just a pervert who tried to get her in bed makes it so much harder. So, I have decided to cut her out of my life till she can come clean and repent her sins to the Lord.

I can also relate to your finance troubles as well. As of right now, we only have $5 to our name. With two very young children and one on the way. My H is unemployed, so we have no source of income. I don't know what to do either except pray. And that is exactly what I will do for you. Be strong in the Word of God, he WILL make you strong for your H as well as your children. I don't know how we are making it, but we are, by the grace of God.

God - please give strength to wifeofadecon in this trying time. Show her life can be good still even during this tribulation. More than anything God reveal her strength to her H, so that he too can want to become as strong as her and follow her example. Your example, Dear Lord.

If you need to talk more, since we are in such similar situations you are more than welcome to email me: eunnit@hellokitty.com

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by lcg_25:
<strong> Dear Wifeofadecon,

I too am going thru a similar situation. My H had an A with my blood sister for a little over 2 years. During those 2 years I was pregnant with my first child, then a second and I am now pg with our 3rd. I was 7 months along when the A was revealed to me.

I cannot tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I did to make me feel better. My H was the one who revealed the affair and my sister has denied everything. I know in my heart my H would never make up all these things knowing how much it would hurt me. I chose to forgive my H and we are in recovery now re-building our M.

I am here too, because I cannot find it in my heart to forgive my sister for what she has done. I am trying, but by her denying everything and saying my H was just a pervert who tried to get her in bed makes it so much harder. So, I have decided to cut her out of my life till she can come clean and repent her sins to the Lord.

I can also relate to your finance troubles as well. As of right now, we only have $5 to our name. With two very young children and one on the way. My H is unemployed, so we have no source of income. I don't know what to do either except pray. And that is exactly what I will do for you. Be strong in the Word of God, he WILL make you strong for your H as well as your children. I don't know how we are making it, but we are, by the grace of God.

God - please give strength to wifeofadecon in this trying time. Show her life can be good still even during this tribulation. More than anything God reveal her strength to her H, so that he too can want to become as strong as her and follow her example. Your example, Dear Lord.

If you need to talk more, since we are in such similar situations you are more than welcome to email me: eunnit@hellokitty.com </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">lcg thank you for your support and thank you gentle for your advice:) lcg i tried emailing you but it said your email box is full:(

<small>[ June 21, 2004, 03:57 PM: Message edited by: wifeofadecon ]</small>