It seems my WW is going to spend the week after the 4th (including her birthday) with the OM and meet his family. This is from my YD who spilled the beans yesterday, and WW confirms only that she will be gone. Of course the upside for me is 9-10 days with my little girl. And maybe WW and OM can annoy each other enough that they will break it off.

Of course, I don't know what YD meant by his family, so it could just be his kids.

I have mixed feeling about this. I just hope perhaps God could speak to her about it.

I can't understand how so many people couldn't care less that two families are being broken up.

I just pray that God might use this for reconciliation of our marriage in some way.

Tony

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by javaSansContour:
<strong> It seems my WW is going to spend the week after the 4th (including her birthday) with the OM and meet his family. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Tony,

10 days after he left me, my H took OW all the way across the country, and introduced her to his family. Then took them all out for a "celebratory birthday party" for her, and HE PAID FOR IT ALL.

Man plans, God laughs. Let Him have it.

God Bless, my brother.

Well,

WW called today and asked to speak with YD. She spoke for about 2 minutes at the most and then hung up.

Please keep her in your prayers, as I really feel she needs to find her way back to both God and her marriage.

Tony

Father,

Even though we can't see it we know you are doing something with Java's wife, and that you are working everything out.

Help Java to be patient, not to Lovebust, and to wait on you while you are working on her.

Help him to be still and show him if there is anything he should do or say.

Thank you that she is going to realise that this is not the way to have her needs met- that she won't be happy apart from your will.

Thank you that she will bring her hurts to you, and her guilt and shame, and that you will accept her and forgive her and heal her.

Father, we know that you want to heal her, and that you can, so we know you will, that it is just a matter of time. Please let it be soon Father.

Let there be a gulf between her and the OP, and let her realise that she was better off with her husband.

Father, put things in her path to remind her of your truth, and to convict her: thoughts and memories of her kids, music, people, movies, whatever there is that will make her wake up.

Let her see Java as a safe place, her friend, not her enemy, and that it is safe and easy for her to come back.

Shul

i have kept you in my prayers tony as well as others on MB this was a big weekend for a lot of people here. i'm afriad that i'm needing a prayer like this, i just found out that my H will be taking a trip out west to see some of his family. one of his sisters just had a baby so i'm sure his parents are there and maybe some other family. well after some discussion, my H admitted that he would be bringing "someone" w/him on the trip. you can read more about the conversation on the GQ forum but basically. i thought about seeing what i can do to make him have to reschedule the trip and i could but have decided that i just can't do anything.

it makes me aboslutely sick to think that he is doing this but i just can't control anything and maybe hope that even though this might bring them closer that evenutally it might bring them apart. if only more people could see things through God's eyes and obey him, there wouldn't be so much hurt in this world. prayers and strength to you, RR