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I jsut talked to my husband, and it wasn't good, but maybe its time he knew how I feel. I have been [censored] footing around for too long.
He is going to call me tomorrow. I have until then to sort this out.
I really need to hear from God.
We really need prayer right now. I feel this is a turning point.
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Father,
I pray that you would use the words and feelings shared by Shul to reach her husband. Prepare the hearts of both of them for the work you are about to do.
Amen
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java- love you sig. line....hate when my kids DO IT for real THO! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
Peace out
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I am going to speak positive things into this situation with my husband.
He is coming around. He doens't want to be with the OW.
He is glad he got away from her.
He has been obsessed with getting a car, needing control, but he is going to wait until he can drive legally, and he will get the van out of her place as soon as possible, adn then have no further contact with her.
He is starting to miss me and our daughter. he wants to provide for us. He wants to be with me , and spend time with her. He is starting to call again, and he is opening up to me.
He is sexually attracted to me, and thinks about being with me. He sees that I have changed for the better; grown, become more confident. He doens't see me as a burden anymore, he sees me as a mistress, a woman he wants to be with.
He sees that some of his actions have resulted in more problems, and he is learning that its better to obey the laws for his own sake.
He is no longer deceived by the lies of the enemy. the light is overcoming the darkness in his mind.
He is starting to receive the love I give him, and it is healing him.
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