I jsut realised that my husband has only seen his daughter twice in the past four months.

the last time was on Fathers day.

I drove in to the city. He was at the OW's so he met us on the street and talked to his daughter for about 3 minutes.

Please pray. I can't I'm too upset.

Dear Shul:

God is with you and your daughter. I know that it is hard to feel; heck, most of the time, I can't feel it for myself.

Maybe just know that I am here praying for you and your daughter and so are all of your MB friends.

When the EXs leave, they leave so much of themselves behind, as well. My friend just left his wife, and he is so deep in the fog that I do not even recognize this guy. This man who you called your faithful husband does not even know who he is; he is lost to even himself. He is walking through the Valley of the Shadow of Death and he thinks that it is a great place to be, because he can't see the blackness all around him.
The ones who pay the most obvious and painful price are you and your little girl (how badly i want a little girl to call me daddy!!!!!!!!) and it is not fair, it is not right, and it hurts to the depth of your soul.
Here, I saw this post and hope that it gives you some measure of hope or peace;

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=34;t=011593

Please know that you are not alone, I am here, many others are here and most important GOD here with us all.


In the Peace of Christ,

George Bailey