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#347438 11/04/04 01:55 AM
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I would like to request that you pray for me and my wife Allana. She will be moving out at the beginning of December. We have talked about trying to work things out but she is not for sure if the feelings are still there or if there is anything I can do to prove to her that the changes that I am making are permanent.
I let my wife down in a lot of ways and by me doing so we hurt each other a lot in many different ways including finally infidelity.
I have been visiting this site for a few weeks now and just signed up as a member and would appreciate that you pray for the successful reunion of our marriage.

Keith Borchers

#347439 11/04/04 05:00 AM
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Keith

My prayers go out to you and your wife. It is only when we let God take over our lives that we are able to face our problems.

Amen

Gustav

#347440 11/05/04 08:07 AM
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Hi Keith,

My prayers are with you. I am in a very similar situation - although my W has not moved out. (I hope and pray she will not, but fear I have hurt her so badly that she might.).

May God's sure hand guide you both through this painful time.

Richard

#347441 11/05/04 08:31 AM
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I prayed for you. I believe god wants us to change and send us these trials so we will work on ourselfs and be better people.

#347442 11/05/04 10:33 AM
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Daddy,

Please look upon us and our spouses with mercy. Show the same mercy to them that you have shown to us.

Our spouses are in trouble. They are our flesh and blood, the way you made us to be, and we are afraid for them.

We want them to know you and have peace with you , and know your love .

Jesus said that no one can come to him unless you draw them. We earnestly plead with you to draw them; to do whatever it takes to bring them out of sin and into the light.

Jesus said that this was the reason you sent him; to save sinners.

We are willing to do our part in loving them; we ask you to do your part in drawing and healing them, and convicting them by the spirit.


Help us to show them the same mercy and grace that you have shown to us, and let them be drawn to the light they see in us.

Warn them of the consequences of straying from your path today, and of the good things you have for us when we follow your ways, I ask in Jesus name.

Let them see that they are getting in the way of their own happiness.

Convict us , Lord, of anything we have done that has hurt them in any way, that we need to change- any unloving or inconsiderate or selfish attitude or actions that they are holding against us, and that we need to repent of.

Help us to be still so that we can hear from you today, Lord.

#347443 11/09/04 03:17 PM
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Our Father,
I am asking that you save Keith and Allana's marraige as a testimony of your mercy and love. Please draw them both close to you and help them to switch their focus to You and not the world and its pain. Raise them up as a couple to witness to the power of reconciliation through you, and convict them of Your will. In Jesus' precious name I ask these things. Amen.

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Please spread your mercy over Keith and Allana and help them to see your mercy work in their lives. Help them to accept whatever youo want to do with their lives.

Amen

GK


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