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H was supposed to come over today to see us.
I went to the house to pick him up but I didn't call first, and ow was there.
I told him that I am very uncomfortaable with her being there. He said she just gave him a ride home.
He told me to get out, that we are not doing this etc..
Now I dont' know if he is coming to visit or not, and our daughter was really looking forward to him coming over.
I wish I had not gone there. I had a feeling I should call first. It really bothers me that she is in my house.
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Hugs to you Shul. I don't know how I would have reacted if I had gone to visit H & the OW would have been there. I can't imagine the pain you must be going through right now.
Just wanted to let you know that thoughts are w/you & I pray things get better soon for you & your DD.
Love in Christ,
Y
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Thank you Yvette,
I am sick over this. He didn't call or show up adn Dd has been waiting since Tuesday. Sh ehasn't seen him in almost 10 days.
I can't believe he spent the day with ow instead of seeing his child.
I think I need to do a hard 180.
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We had it out. It was not a good scene.
I won't be going to the house anymore.
I don't know what is going to happen now.
I guess I have to stay away and let him come to me.
And I think he will, in time.
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