This idea is from a wise friend I have at work.<P>She has been married less than 1 year. She knows that she and her husband will have to work to keep the spark in the marriage and is being pro-active in keeping the flame alive.<P>At times when she is feeling bored with the routine, she will suggest that her husband meet her somewhere after work. They "pretend" that it is the first time they have met. he can either "pick her up" or she can "pick him up" at whatever bar or restaurant they agree to meet at. She didn't offer any details on what happens next...that is up to you and your partner to decide for yourselves. <P>She says it works great for the two of them. Give it a try and let us know how it works.