My wife and I are recently repairing our Marriage after an affair... There was a period where we just kinda lived, but did not do much... This was the beginning of the affair. Now we are doing well, we still have many issues and things to work on, but we are making possitive strides. A little saying we made up, to help us make sure we move in the right direction.... She asked me if we were going to make it... and I replied NO... We were going to make it great...........