Both H and I were "plus size" for many years, and there were not too many limits to what we did. There is so much beautiful plus-size lingerie on the market today, and he always liked seeing me in it. Other things that arefun for us, and usually lead to SF:<p>1. Giving a massage (we actually bought a very sturdy, portable massage table - rated to 1,000 lbs. to use). Get some lovely oil, light some candles, put on some music. The experience is highly sensual, even if it doesn't lead to SF. But it usually does/did! (I also do massage for obese friends - they often don't get a lot of touching, sexual or otherwise).<p>2. Not surprisingly, we are quite food oriented, so a lot of our romantic evenings involv food. Dressing up in a french maid costume and waiting on him hand and foot at the table does it every time [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] One of our favorite "games" is to get a small, new paintbrush and an assortment of goodies, and spend a whole lot of time painting something on and licking it off. Start at the chin and work your way down. Creme de menthe, honey, chocolate syrup, maraschino cherry juice, etc.<p>3. Sponge Bath - no really! I'm pretty sensitive about hygiene and scent, so I like to make sure everything's squeaky clean before we get busy. It turned out to be such a sensual experience to slowly undress him, and then use hot, wet handtowels to wash him off. We often don't get to the drying off part.<p>4. Blindfolds add a completely new dimension to anything you choose to do. Very, very erotic to be blindfolded, and not know what to expect - everything is heightened. Also helps if you are a bit sensitive due to large size. We like restraints too, but that's too bizarre for many people. I've found that especially in the large size community however, the concept of being restrained is highly erotic.<p>Okay - that should get you through the weekend!
