One thing I tried was a foot spa/bath. When your spouse gets home have a warm basin of soapy water ready. Have him put his/her feet in and let him/her relax for awhile then gently wash their feet and dry them. Then for the grand finale get some lotion or oil and give a massage. Give it a try and let me know what kind of response you get! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />