Well, what I did was to get some film that did not have to be developed. He came home the kids were gone and I gave him a floor show of all of my nighties. Then I asked him which one he liked. Right there and then I pulled our the camera and started taking pictures. He really liked it. The other morning we were having our time and I said hey would you like to go and find the pictures? He had no idea where they were so we both went to the room and it was great. We are going to do that again but in different nighties. When I did that is was durning all the turmoil I was feeling but I put my feelings aside to give him his attention. He will always remember that no matter what happens.