I have been on trial for almost a year. My husband left suddenly and two weeks later moved another woman in with him. I love my husband with all my heart. I don't understand why he says our marriage wont work. He filed for divorce and then put in on hold for 30 days. He says if he comes home and gives up his girlfriend and it doesn't work for us what would he have then. We have been married for 23 yrs. In my heart the problems he says we have are only in his mind. I pray for Strength,wisdom,peace for my husband, his girlfriend and myself. I pray God touches my husbands heart and removes the blinders of satin. In Jesus name I pray amen.

dear brown0674,<P>welcome to the Ladies Bible Study...<P>we do pray for each other here, I will light my candle in the morning and do my routine scan of the infidelity forum and then back here.<P>if you are interested, I am Liz Smith/POGP/alias, most recently posted as alias.<P>blessings, <P>Liz\Pearl<P>------------------<BR><BR>"I have found the Pearl of Great Price"<BR>

Brown0674,<BR>Glad to have you with us. We are a praying group of women, we have seen some wonderful answers to prayer already. If you want to be encouraged reread all of the posts on this forum.<BR>I along with others light a candle when I sit at my computer and read the days posts, it signifys our committment to pray for the requests shared. Thank you for allowing us to pray for you and we ask for you to pray for our concerns as well. You will be prayed for I guarantee.<BR>Hope you can get ahold of the book we are using, it really helps us to focus and pray as God would have us. Again, Welcome!

I need some prayer right now too! My H and I seem to be losing ground. He refused to spend Christmas with me and I later found out he spent it with the OW. I have always been there for him. For comfort, to take care of all the bills, to take all his messages and handle all the little details in life. I hope I am following God's chosen path for me right now because as of yesterday I quit! I called all the DR's offices to change his phone number to the place he's staying. (he's having major surgery next month and he doesn't want me there but he wants me to play receptionist for him) I am going to stay with a friend for 2 weeks until he has his surgery so he can't show up in the middle of the night. He doesn't know where I am. I changed the phone number to an unlisted number so he can not call me.( I am not allowed to call him at work or the place he's staying i just have to wait for him to call me) I am taking the rest of the week off work so he can not find me there either. Part of me feels like I need to put distance between us but another part of me is wondering if i am harming our relationship more by doing these things. I was trying so hard to be supportive and show unconditional love, now I feel good about the distance i am creating but I have my moments of regret. Before I did all these things we agreed to getting together Thurs evening to talk. Lord enable us to communicate well and show me the next step I need to take. Most of all remove OW from our lives and give H the strength to resist temptation of being with her. <BR>Any prayers and any advice and comfort would be appreciated right now. I was devastated spending xmas with out him and so hurt when I found out he was with her. <BR>Lord give me strength to get through this! I am so scared right now, comfort me, cleanse my heart and fill it with peace, love and joy. Amen.<P>------------------<BR>morgan