Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
#350278 02/14/00 09:41 AM
Joined: Dec 1998
Posts: 47
C
Carrie Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
C
Joined: Dec 1998
Posts: 47
On the subject of affection... do any of you ladies feel as if YOU are actually the one who witholds affection at times? I find myself holding back sometimes, especially when my H shows affection in public situations. Why do you think this is?<P>Carrie.

#350279 02/14/00 09:58 AM
Joined: Nov 1999
Posts: 1,063
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Nov 1999
Posts: 1,063
For me, it feels like a possession thing, especially if he is not being tender and affectionate at home. To only show affection outside of the home seems phony. Since I do love tenderness, I am trying to respond appropriately and still pray for it to pour over in our home.

#350280 02/16/00 06:22 PM
Joined: Dec 1998
Posts: 47
C
Carrie Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
C
Joined: Dec 1998
Posts: 47
I guess my problem is not so much that... we are very affectionate at home, it's just public places where I feel annoyed or anxious. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] I posted on the other "his affection" thread about this, in case you're interested.<P>Carrie.<P><P>------------------<BR>Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.<BR>-1 Peter 4:8


Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 236 guests, and 72 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Raja Singh, Loyalfighter81, Everlasting Love, Harry Smith, Brutalll
71,958 Registered Users
Latest Posts
Lack of sex - anyway to fix it?
by Nightflyer90 - 03/23/25 08:14 PM
Forum Statistics
Forums67
Topics133,621
Posts2,323,490
Members71,959
Most Online3,185
Jan 27th, 2020
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Copyright © 2025, Marriage Builders, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5