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#350436 02/21/00 07:46 AM
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<BR>My H has become impossible to deal with right now. His anger has gotten out of control. (You can check out my post on the general questions for details if you want). It got so bad this weekend that I'm really starting to wonder if I should be standing for this marriage. <P>Please pray for his anger. <P>Dearest Father,<BR>I come to you for Bob, not me. He's so angry right now that he can't think rationally. Take away some of his anger. Soften his heart to me and especially to his children. Instruct him as he sleeps this week so that he can learn to do the right things. Lift him up and reassure him that he is a child of God. In your name I pray. Amen.<BR>

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Mitzi,<BR>I'll be praying for Bob, you and your children this morning during my prayer time. God bless,<BR>MTAW<BR>

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Read your stuff over in "general". What a bummer!<P>Father, you said that you would be a father to the fatherless and though these children have a father, his brain apprears to be non-functioning right. You see the pain Mitzi's children are having and I just ask that you step in and comfort these babies, that you give Mitzi wisdom in how to nurture them in such a way that all anxiety will disappear from these young ones. Father, anger at unrighteousness is not a sin and yet our response can be. I ask that your spirit guide Mitzi right now and clear her mind so that she can make wise decisions to protect herself and the children, particularly in the area of finances. Father give her your understanding so that she can be a good steward of the things you have given her and that she can boldly take the steps necessary to protect herself and to honor you. <P>Father, you also tell us to pray for others and so we do lift up Bob to you this morning. In those places where we do not know how to pray honorably, Holy Spirit pray for us. Father, in the name of Jesus we rebuke the evil one from Bob, we ask for you to restore clarity of mind, so that he understands the impact of his behavior on his wife and children. We ask that you diminish the excitement of this affair and show Bob the darkness that lurks amid this temptress. We ask that you remove her to greener pastures that do not have families attached to them. We ask for restoration of this marriage in such a way that Bob will come to know the saving grace you have for him and appreciate the wife you have chosen for him. We thank you for the MIL that is so supportive to Mitzi right now.<P>Fill Mitzi with your peace and let today be one of joy for her as she loves her children. Annoint her with the oil of joy and let it pour out on everyone that she comes in contact with. Guard her mouth that nothing comes forth that isn't from you. Help her to focus on you and the gifts you have given her. IJN

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Heavenly Father, I lift up Mitzi and her children to you today. Please tuck Mitzi and her children under your wings of protection and comfort. <P>Give Mitzi the strength that can only come from you. Let her know her value before you and the preciousness that she and the children have in your eyes. <P>In the name of Jesus and through the power of his resurrection from the dead, I command the lying spirits of darkness, the spirit of infidelity, the spirit of self-centeredness the spirit of disbelief and the Jezebel spirit that inhabits Bob's OW to all go to the foot of the cross and stay there. <P>I declare that all demonic assignments are cancelled in the name of Jesus and for his sake and the sake of your glory. <P>Heavenly Father, Holy Spirit, Saviour Jesus, deliver this family from the trials they are in.<P>For the sake of these children and so that we may praise your name, we ask that you do these things quickly so that this family of yours will be saved the further ravages of infidelity and divorce.<P>Thank you for your faithfulness to your children. We will praise you HOWEVER you choose to answer our requests, because we see through a mirror darkly, but you see all.<P>AMEN<P>--------<BR>lizzie\pearl<P>------------------<P>"I have found the Pearl of Great Price"<BR><p>[This message has been edited by POGP (edited February 21, 2000).]

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Dear Mitzi, I too will keep you both in prayer.<P>Father,<BR>I come before you to pray for Mitizi. Give Mitzi a heart of praise for you oh Lord, not for the circumstances but for you. Her everlasting Father who does not desert her, or hurt her, but carries her through the storm and allows for her anger and keeps her safe from it.<BR>Father, we lift up Bob to you now. Instruct him, even while he sleeps. Bring him to a place that he has no where else to look but up to you. Reveal your Holy Spirit in such a way that he is able to see the HS. Father, temper this mans anger at his children and and his wife. Show him the support Mitzi has been and shine Jesus through Mitzi to her husband. I pray for your glory to be revealed and I praise you that you will use this for good. Increase mitz's faith today. In Jesus name. Amen.

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Thank you all for praying for Bob. Even though he is being unreasonable right now, God does want us to pray for our enemies. When Jesus was on the cross, he cried out for his Father to forgive those who were against them. <P>I love Bob and I feel like he really needs something to bring him to his knees. I think it may take something drastic too. <P>I'm less angry right now. I've had time to process it, deal with it, and turn it over to God. PTL<P>I think it's the Psalms that give me strength more than anything. They are so full of praise, and also full of wonderful ways to cry out to God in despair. <P>I may not be posting in the infidelity section as much. There has been so much anger there lately. Plus the pain. It only brings me down and I think strengthens my anger. Which I don't want. I want inspiration and this is where I get it.<P>Thank you ladies for all the help I get here. Emotionally and spiritually. I love you all!<P>Prayers,<BR>Mitzi

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Though it may feel like it, Bob isn't the enemy...the evil one is the enemy, the destroyer, the stalking lion searching for prey. Okay, so this one is named Jezebel....smile. <P>Sometimes it does feel like support when you find someone feeling as hurt as you do, but I even quit posting for the most part in the emotional needs section because it was so discouraging all the time.<P>Father, thank you for helping Mitzi this day, for hearing our cries and for never failing us. When we look to you, the sky seems less gray and we thank you. We love you and we praise you for what you will be doing in our marriages. IJN


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