I just wanted to let you know, although I have not posted for weeks, I am still out hear reading the posts and praying daily. Just thought I would update you on my situation. Everything is going very well. (I'm almost afraid to say that.) But the Lord has been good. More than generous with the changes He has made in our lives. Things I never thought possible have happened. We just came back from PA (where our families live). My H has been transferred and we are moving there this summer. We will no longer have the threat of running into OW since we will be moving out of state. My H has been much more affectionate, reading the word nightly, and has agreed to go to Sunday school with me and a marriage conference at our church next month. This is a big step. As you know, he refused counciling and we have been left to work this through with only the help of God and you wonderful prayer warriors. I am so grateful to you. You have been my sole support and sounding board besides my Saviour. We definitely have a road to travel with many bumps in the future but we have our Father to help us through. We still need to learn to communicate better and I still battle with thoughts of "what was" at times. I can usually fight this spiritual battle and win but at times, satan gets the best of me and gets me down. But not for long, for I now know where my strength lies. Again, I just want you to know I am praying for you all--AW, POGP, Lor, SueB, Pookie, etc. (sorry I don't have my list in front of me). Some of you have had to endure so much more than I can even imagine. But I rest assured God will care for you and get you through one step at a time. Take His hand and let Him guide you and carry your burdens. He uses these trials for good. "Remember that no early circumstances can hinder the fulfillment of God's Word. We must look steadfastly at His Word and not at the uncertainty of this ever-changing world. God desires for us to believe His Word without other evidence, and then He is ready to do for us "according to our faith." Keep the faith! Hugs & blessings to you all, J

Dear J, <BR>I'm so happy for you and your husband. I agree with you 100%, if you read my earlier post my h and I are back together, the process took 4 months, which to me felt like years, but thanks to this forum and the WONDERFUL people here it was easier at times to endure the hurt. <P>I too will check in and pray for our friends, as they prayed for us in the past and hopefully will continue praying, EVEN after all our marriages and troubles have been resolved.<P>Good luck in your move to PA. The Lord does work in mysterious ways. He is so AWSOME!<P>The best to you and your family. With all my love and continued prayers for a bright future with God leading the way!<P>Pookie!:-) <p>[This message has been edited by Pookie14 (edited March 21, 2000).]