Pray for me tomorrow. Sunday is the hardest day for me since I must be in a place with both h and the ow. What should be a place of solice (Church)...... she has stolen as well.<BR>I cannot let my children see this. My h hates when I get "sad" looking and it drives him more to her. Pray that God will fill me up with his Love and aceptance. Continue to pray for the OW as well.

bjb,<BR>It always baffles me when the man hates that someone gets sad or upset because of the pain their behavior is causing. It makes him feel his guilt, that is why he hates it. Do you ever talk to her husband. You could be seen talking with him. You don't have to say a thing, but I wonder what two other prople might think you were saying. I wonder if it would give them cause to evaluate what they are doing? So hard to say. I will say a prayer for you. You're right, Church should be a santuary for each and everyone of God's children. It should be a place to honor God. We all sin, don't gt me wrong, I just get angry at infidelity.<P>Father, <BR>Give bjb an extra measure of peace tomorrow. Lord, I know You hate waht is going on, but wwe lift the situation to You. You are in this and in control. Nothing happens outside Your care and knowledge. I know You will work even this for good, although there will be consequences and bumps along the way. Thank You God that You are there. How would we ever get through this without You. Father, convict this husband and this ow of their sin against You. Send Your Holy Spirit to touch them in a most powerful way. Lord, God almighty, You are there. Yell, in their ears. Lord, confound and expose this other woman. Let them be exposed according to Your will. Father, protect the children caught in this. In Jesus name, Amen.